The healing temple

The healing temple

A MEDITITATIVE VISIT
TO THE HEALING TEMPLE


Sit comfortably, let your eyes close. Bring your attention to your breath. Feel your breath and your body as you sit, without trying to change them. Notice what’s comfortable and what’s uncomfortable. Notice if you are sleepy or awake. Notice if there is lots of clutter in the mind or if it is quiet. Just be aware of ...

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Life – Are you ready for it?

Life - Are you ready for it?

Well, are you? Are you really ready? I mean it, are you really ready for what life brings? Have you ever asked, what is life?


Life just happens, we can get in the way and try to manipulate it to suit our every whim or we can learn to understand that life is going to happen anyway it wants to and that what ever it ...

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7 Momentum Questions to keep you moving forward

7 Momentum Questions to keep you moving forward

There is no doubt that sometimes no matter how hard you are trying, you seem to never get anywhere. With how busy our live can be today, there is no doubt that it can get really hard to keep some momentum in your life which keeps you moving forward. So with that in mind here’s 7 Momentum Questions you can use every day to help you achieve your goals and ...

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Thinking outside the box

Thinking outside the box

Ok, so we've all heard the expression "thinking ouside the box," but do you have any idea on how to do it?  There are some really simple techniques for coming up with solutions "outside the box."


When innovators talk about thinking outside the box, they mean coming up with creative ways to solve problems - new ways to look at things. How do they do it? ...

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A Different View on Weight Loss

By - Garry Robbins


114kg down to 82kg, that has been my journey.


Why I say it is a different view on weight loss is that thru the whole process which is split into 2 parts, I never really focused on weight or weight loss.  My whole FOCUS was on HEALTH, physical and mental, which was the key to my long term weight ...

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The Beginner’s Guide to Day Trading

The Beginner’s Guide to Day Trading

By - Darren Boland

One of my passions is Finance, I love to look at everything to do with finance. As much as possible I have been learning everything I can about Money markets and what drives them. Which is where I am getting to here, Day trading is a great way to earn a little extra income or potentially replace your income, BUT do not be mistaken you ...

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Cooking with pressure

The whole theme of this site, is Self Help, Now that can mean many different things to many different people. My own biggest problem is trying to find utilise my time in each day, to achieve the most I possibly can. We all know I love outsourcing, I also love Short cuts.

 



I recently purchased a pressure cooker, it cooks food quicky and locks in ...

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Outsourcing extreme –  Outsource your dating life

Outsourcing extreme - Outsource your dating life

Ok, ok. I promise this will be the last article for a little while about Outsourcing. I was talking to a good friend of mine about Tim Ferris. He is actually the one that got me onto the book "The 4 hour work week".

When I started to poke around on YouTube.  I found a interview by Tim Ferris, about outsoucing, and how he outsourced ...

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The benefits of outsourcing - A Practical look in the real world

Ok I know, everyone is probably thinking Jeezzz, I wish He would change the topic, but I really love the whole concept of Outsourcing.  You would already know if you read Outsourcing - If your not doing it, You should be.  I use a Virtual Assistant, but I recently had a brilliant Saturday Night over at some friends place, who were both very keen to show me the ...

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Self Help Advice, Books and Videos

Selfhelpforme.com is a self help and self improvement portal offering a comprehensive guide to improving your health, wealth and happiness whilst also promoting a more green lifestyle.

The mind, body and spirit are inextricably linked. So, as well as emphasizing the importance of exercise, diet and nutrition, we are also concerned with promoting a positive mindset. We believe that maintaining proper motivation, discipline and mental well-being is the key to happiness. So, in addition to covering topics such as meditation and relaxation, we also share practical advice on vital life skills such as time management and money management plus some great tips on making extra money.

Alongside our articles and blog posts we have some inspiring motivational videos and lots of recommended books on everything from relationships to buying and selling property. You’ll also find some excellent advice on overcoming anxiety, coping with depression and improving your overall mental well-being.


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The Success Psychology

Unless you have a frame of misuccess pschologynd that will enable you to actually achieve your goals and then to consolidate those gains into SUCCESS, you are pretty much guaranteed to live a pretty unfulfilled and frustrated life. I mean it really doesn’t matter what books you read, what courses you take, what blogs you read IT WON’T MATTER unless you have the RIGHT FRAME OF MIND to welcome and expect success in your life.


I heard a quote once “success is 80% psychology and 20% activity“, I’m not sure I agree with that 100% but its pretty close.  Success begins with a unshakeable belief of what you can achieve and what you want to achieve,  the second thing is an unshakeable commitment and plan of action that you will carry out your belief.

If you haven’t already experienced it along the way, the chances are you will.  No matter what you are trying to achieve, wealth creation, marathon running, climbing Mt Everest, retiring early and travelling e.t.c, there will be plenty of people, like friends family, bank managers, that will try and torpedo your goals and efforts,  they will tell you that you success plans are “not possible”  or “It can’t be done”, or my favorite “Why on earth would you want to do that your should do BLAH BLAH”. 

I like to think  that most people are well meaning and want the best for you, but when they say things like that its usually a result of their own life per-conditioning , or they feel threatened that if you go on to achieve your goals they will be wrong and left behind, or maybe they are a little jealous that you’ve gone onto do something positive with your life and they are still stuck in the grinder.

My advice to you, is do not let these people turn you away, or stop you from trying to achieve your beliefs and goals.

You need to have a unshakeable belief in the following two things.

1. Achieving your goals is possible -  i.e. Becoming wealthy (hey plenty of people have done it before you).

2.  Achieving your goals is possible for YOU. – ie.  You are able to become wealthy.

They are thousands of people that have been on the same path before you and achieved their goals.  Also plenty of people that have fallen of the path and never tried again. You’ve only got to tune into the latest reality TV program to see people battling away at their Goals, live on TV, think The Biggest Loser .  There are plenty of courses and resources that you can turn to  learn the action part of the SUCCESS Journey.  I mean there are blogs like this one, travel blogs, finance blogs, How to blogging blogs, fitness blogs, you get the picture.

But the SUCCESS PSYCHOLOGY is up to you, you are the one that can make the changes in your life, there is plenty of help and support resources out there for you.  But I can only show you the path, NO ONE can walk it for you, that alone is your responsibility you are the one that is in the driver seat.

There is a stack of reading, resources, seminars that you can attend.  Self education should always form part of your ongoing commitment to knowledge and achieving your own goal.